You've been keeping a mental list. The stove left on. The appointment your parent swore they never scheduled. The way they paused mid-sentence last Thanksgiving, searching for a word that used to come easily. None of these moments felt alarming on their own—but together, they've started to form a picture you're not quite ready to look at.
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You drove up to visit your parent last weekend, but before you even got out of the car, something stopped you. The flower beds that your parent used to tend with pride were overrun with weeds. The porch light was out. And when you stepped inside, there was a faint, stale smell you couldn't quite place.