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Assisted living in Mountainside, NJ, offers the best of all worlds: a supportive community that values independence, close relationships with family members without the challenges of relying on them for caregiving, transportation to attractions and events in Mountainside, and more.

Just like buying your first house or moving into a college dorm, however, it takes some planning and preparation to make the move as seamless as possible. As you or your loved one prepare for this exciting new chapter, here are some facts that can help you prepare.


Assisted Living Changes Lives

Assisted living can change seniors’ lives. The right assisted living community offers much more than a senior can get at home, including a vast array of activities, delicious food, and a welcoming community where a senior feels both safe and valued. Caregivers enjoy relief from the myriad stresses of caregiving, and extended families may spend less time worrying—or arguing—about the challenges their loved one faces.

This improvement in quality of life can also mean better health. Seniors are more active in assisted living, which can mean lower risks of dementia, cardiovascular disease, and depression. Once they no longer have to juggle the many burdens of caregiving, caregivers’ health may also improve.

Preparation Is Key

As with any move, a little preparation goes a long way. Begin packing earlier than you think you need to. This allows you to move at a leisurely pace, reducing stress and pressure. Some things to consider as you pack include:

  • The role of sentimental items. Ensure your new home feels comfortable and cozy by packing your most treasured possessions in an easily accessible box or bag.
  • The need to downsize. Now is the time to embrace minimalism. Keep only the things you absolutely love, and donate the rest.
  • Community rules and recommendations. Every community has its own list of recommended items. Consult the list as you pack.
  • The need for help. Packing up a lifetime's worth of memories can be difficult, even if you’re excited about the move. Ask a loved one to help, and make the process more fun by watching movies or listening to your favorite music as you pack.

Transitions Can Be Difficult

You’ve probably already experienced some difficult transitions in your life. And if so, you know that even positive transitions can be hard. Remember the challenges of the first year of marriage? Or the homesickness you felt during your first weeks of college? You might experience some mixed feelings when you first move, but as with other transitions, the difficult emotions will pass as you find a comfortable rhythm and a place in your new community.

Your Relationships Might Change

When a relationship focuses on giving or receiving care, it inevitably changes the relationship. When you’re no longer relying on family members for support, your relationships may shift. This allows you to enjoy your relationships on their own terms, rather than relying on them for a source of care and support. Many seniors find that this offers more freedom and a sense of deeper intimacy in their family relationships.

Choosing the Right Assisted Living Community Makes the Process Easier

No two assisted living communities are identical, so spend some time touring communities to ensure you’ve found the right fit. The best communities offer numerous activities and special events, and work hard to foster a community spirit. They welcome questions, encourage feedback, and get excited to lead community tours. As you tour, pay careful attention to other residents. Do they seem happy and well-cared-for? Is the community clean? Are the staff friendly? Can you picture yourself living here?

The Arbor Company has served seniors for 30 years. Every day, we see the difference our programs make. We’re in the business of changing lives. If you’re overwhelmed by caregiving or feel anxious about continuing to live alone, we can help. Give us a call or attend one of our community events to learn more about what makes Arbor Terrace Mountainside so special.

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Kelly Adams

About the Author: Kelly Adams

Kelly has been a Licensed Nursing Home Administrator since 1997 and has worked as an Executive Director in Senior Living for more than a decade. Kelly is a New Jersey native and enjoys spending time with her three sons and participating in half marathons.

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